Archive for July, 2008

30
Jul

Tempted

   Posted by: Shane    in Leadership

James 1: 12-15
Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. Let no one say when he is tempted, I am being tempted by God, for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.

When I read over this passage the one thing that always jumps out to me is the truth that sin really begins and ends with me. I can only be tempted by that which I set mind on beforehand. The crushing reality that as I start to blame my sin on things, situations or other people… I can’t… I have to come to grips with the truth that I can only really be tempted when I have allowed my mind to desire something I shouldn’t.

What about in leadership? Are we on guard and protecting our minds from being tempted so that our actions don’t bring death?

Ten things that can tempt and bring death to a leader:

1. Focus on personal advancement instead of team success.
2. Shift blame to others instead of absorbing it yourself.
3. Avoiding a hard conversation because you might not be liked afterwards.
4. Wanting to be heard instead of trying to listen.
5. Delegating to the point of being unaware.
6. Make decisions that please people instead of the right ones.
7. Delaying tough decisions under the disguise of needing more information.
8. Always acting like you know all the answers.
9. Never seek advice or wisdom for fear of appearing incapable of your role.
10. Believe you’ve learned all there is to know about what you do.

Leadership can come with many privileges. It also comes with many pains. If we allow our minds to desire those privileges over the pain, our focus will soon drift to serving ourself, which will be the beginning of the death of our leadership.

But to the leader that is steadfast…to the one who stands through the test… LIFE… not just to the leader, but also to the ones they lead.

28
Jul

Your Dash

   Posted by: Shane    in Life

I love this poem and the question it asks:

HOW DO YOU LIVE YOUR DASH
by Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end.

He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars, the house, the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy’s being read
With your life’s actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?

The bible says that our days are numbered, specifically, by God (Job 14:5). The time of our birth and the time of our death are secure in His providence and we have no control over either. God has marked out our time (our dash) for a purpose (Ephesians 2:10). Our legacy will not be determined by how we enter or how we leave this world but how we live in it. This leads us to two truths and a question:

We glorified God in our birthPsalm 139:13-14

We will glorify God in our deathPhilippians 2:9-11

Will we glorify God in with our life? Mathew 5:14-16

“So, when your eulogy’s being read
With your life’s actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?”

24
Jul

40’s Top 10 (desserts)

   Posted by: Shane    in Life

If there is anything that I’m an expert in it is desserts… so here are the best ones that can be purchased in the open market. By far, the best desert ever is my grandmothers chocolate pound cake… from scratch with chocolate icing… also from scratch. Since you can’t get to that goodness, here’s some you can get to:

10. Strawberry Cake - The Sweetery in Anderson, SC
9. Coconut Creme Pie - The Meeting Place, Anderson, SC
8. Chocolate Ice Cream w/ Reeses in waffle cone - Spill the Beans
7. Key Lime Pie Ice Cream - Bruster’s
6. Chocolate Stampede - Longhorns
5. Hot Apple Pie - La Hacienda Ranch in Dallas, Tx
4. Peanut Butter Cup Ice Cream - Ben & Jerry’s
3. Key Lime Cheesecake - Cheesecake Factory
2. Hot Fudge Cake - Shoneys
1. Peanut Butter Pie - Sullivan’s in Anderson, SC

Hall of Fame
“Hot Now” Krispy Kreme Donuts
Chocolate Chip Double Doozie - Great American Cookie Factory
Key Lime Pie - pretty much anywhere at anytime
Brownie topped with Mayfield Chocolate Chip Ice Cream

23
Jul

40’s Top 10 (songs)

   Posted by: Shane    in Life

My favorite songs of all time:

10. No One Like You - Scorpions
9. Country Boy Can Survive - Hank Williams, Jr.
8. The World I Know - Collective Soul
7. Rocket Man - Elton John
6. Everything - Lifehouse
5. The Truth - Derek Webb
4. Mr. Jones - Counting Crows
3. Hotel California - Eagles
2. Magic Power - Triumph
1b. Refugee Son - Lee McDerment
1a. I Stand Amazed in the Presence - Charles H. Gabriel

How’s that for variety?